Official Publication of the Minnesota State Bar Association


Vol. 61, No. 6 | July 2004
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MSBA PRESIDENT 2004-05
David Stowman: An Intensity for Life

The new president of MSBA, hailing from Detroit Lakes in western Minnesota,
brings an affinity for people, an intensity for life, and a will to get
things done that likely will serve him well.

by Amy Lindgren

Ever wonder what makes someone choose to lead the Minnesota State Bar Association? It’s a position that requires service, commitment, focus ... and a great deal of time. For a lawyer from greater Minnesota, it means hours and hours of windshield time, all at a cost to one’s practice and family. It’s not a decision to take lightly.

But then, as David Stowman, incoming president of the MSBA has learned, some decisions are easier to make than others. And some thorny decisions surprise you by coming into focus unexpectedly. Leaving the Marine Corps 35 years ago was like that for Stowman. When he volunteered after college, he and his wife Judy thought he would make a career with the military. In 1968, near the end of his tour, Stowman was stationed in Vietnam in what was supposed to be a relatively safe spot. A captain, company commander, and already the recipient of several service medals and ribbons, Stowman was not looking for safety - but he could appreciate it, nevertheless.

On this particular day, after 13 months in-country, he was making plans to return to duty in the United States. The only question was when he would leave. If he stayed a little longer now, he’d have a better run of days to be home during the holidays. He signed for that option and went down the hall to the mess. That’s when the ordnance came whistling in.

“There was an explosion and shrapnel was flying everywhere and we were all on our bellies, crawling like reptiles,” Stowman recalls, laughing. “All around me guys were picking glass and wood out of their arms and legs. I crawled right back down that hall and asked for my papers back. I didn’t care how it affected the holidays - I wanted to get out of there as fast as I was going to be able to.”

More than three decades later, this remains one of the few war stories Stowman will tell easily. The glamour of war had lost its appeal, he says of his decision not to stay in the military after all. In 1969 he left the Marines after four years of service and moved back to the Midwest with Judy and their two sons, Jeff and Mike. That decision was easy. Both wanted to live near water and both valued lifestyle over income.

LAUNCHED IN LAW

Stowman finished law school and took the bar in two states: Minnesota and North Dakota. Because the North Dakota results came back sooner, and because he had kids to feed, Stowman began to practice immediately in that state. Not that the work came to him - he had to chase it down.

“There was no public defender system in North Dakota at the time,” Stowman says. “They just appointed people. So I said to the judge, ‘I’d like to be a criminal defense attorney.’ And he said, ‘Okay. You’re a criminal defense attorney.’”

Stowman spent that first year “defending dopers and drunks” as he puts it, before starting his own practice in Detroit Lakes, the northwestern Minnesota town where he and Judy had decided to raise their family.

The business was a family affair from the beginning. Jeff, now a lawyer with his father’s firm, remembers his dad working from home until he could afford an office. Eventually, Judy came to work for him as an office manager and legal assistant and together they built a practice that spans Minnesota and neighboring states.

The focus of the firm was another difficult decision. At first, Stowman says, he took nearly every case that came to him. But it wasn’t long before he discovered that he hated certain kinds of work - domestic cases, real estate, trusts and wills - he disliked them all. Slowly he pared his practice down to its current specialty in personal injury and products liability, always worrying that they would starve without the income from other cases. But an interesting thing happened, he says. As he turned away each unsuitable job, another, more fitting case came in the door to take its place.

Today Stowman enjoys a reputation as one of the state’s top 25 lawyers (Law & Politics, 2001). He and Judy have raised four children (Matt and Anne were born in the 1970s) and now entertain their four grandchildren as often as possible. They conduct business from an elegant fieldstone house they converted to an office on the southwest shore of the lake. At the end of the day, they return to their home on the opposite shore, where David believes the view of the sunset rivals anything he’s seen in 40 years of travel. When he tires of that, he can visit his two farms, one with stands of spruce that he loves to walk through.

Even the journey from home to office is pleasant. With a dock on both ends of his commute, Stowman will often motor across the lake to work and back. Larry Buboltz, mayor of Detroit Lakes says, “He’s probably one of the few lawyers in the state who can jump into a boat to commute to work. You see him go by in his speedboat with his suit and tie on. It’s pretty funny.”

INTENSITY FOR LIFE

It sounds like the perfect life, which brings us back to that question: Why does someone volunteer to be the MSBA president? In Stowman’s case, the answer isn’t very surprising: It’s another way to serve. After 32 years in Detroit Lakes, he’s done nearly everything he can to be of service to his community. He’s headed the VFW post and his church council; he’s run for and served as a city council alderman; he’s chaired the DFL county committee; he’s even functioned as the Water Carnival admiral, loyal to the requirement to dress as a pirate and shoot water cannons in all subsequent water carnivals. All this while building his practice and raising his family.

Of course, each activity takes time, a price that is sometimes difficult to pay. “I would like to be less busy,” Stowman notes. “Spontaneity is what I appreciate, not schedule. The schedule is controlling my life; that’s not my personality.”

So, what drives him to do so much? Judy, his wife of 40 years, has a theory. “I think he has a list in his head,” she says. “There are things he wants to do and places he wants to see before he dies. He was going to fly an airplane and he did. He wanted to ski the Alps and he did. He wanted to barefoot waterski and he did. There are things he just wants to do.”

Indeed, everyone who knows Stowman well speaks of his intensity for life and his passion for trying new things. Whether it’s auditioning for a community play or running the Boston Marathon he’s game to try. According to his son Jeff, even a trip to the grocery store can turn into an experience for his dad, who seems to draw people to him wherever he goes.

“The thing is, my dad is absolutely willing to listen to anybody,” Jeff notes. “We could be on vacation somewhere as a family and the strangest person in the crowd will for some reason start a conversation with my dad and the rest of us will have to wait until he finishes this conversation with someone the rest of us are scared to stand next to. They can tell he’s willing to listen. He enjoys that. I think he sees it as a kind of adventure.”

Stowman says he is comfortable talking with just about anyone, an affinity he gratefully attributes to his small town upbringing in tiny Rothsay, Minnesota. “In my little town,” he says, “the town drunk lived next to the banker and the village idiot next to the man of the cloth. I would deliver newspapers and say hi to all of them and talk to Banker Paulson. That’s just the way life was. If you’re down in the Twin Cities the little paper boy wouldn’t talk with the bank president. So I think from that I got a different perspective on life.”

Although the small town paper carrier grew into a skilled attorney in a community 20 times larger, friends say he hasn’t changed. Hugh Hall, a corrections agent for the Minnesota Department of Corrections and a neighbor of Stowman’s, recalls the first time he and his wife socialized with David and Judy. “We all went out together to the vfw and we were really impressed with the way people reacted to him,” Hall says. “They were just really proud to come up and associate with him and shake his hand. It was clear to me that they were proud they knew him. He’s very comfortable with people who have a lot of money and with people who have a little money.”

KEY INITIATIVES

Stowman will have plenty of opportunity to practice his socializing and listening skills as he leads the Minnesota Bar this year. In fact, all four of his key initiatives for the year take advantage of those skills. The initiatives are: 1. to strengthen legislative relations; 2. to encourage and recruit attorneys from outside the Twin Cities to leadership roles in the MSBA; 3. to support and strengthen the sections of the Bar Association; and 4. to leverage the MSBA’s online resource, practicelaw.org, to help practitioners improve their practices.

Jim Baillie, the outgoing MSBA president, says Stowman will likely face two additional challenges. First, Baillie notes, the Minnesota Legislature’s failure to address key funding issues this session, including monies for the public defender system, may need to be addressed. The second challenge comes from within the organization. Changes to the governance structure of the MSBA, formulated after discussions over the past several years, were approved at this year’s Convention and will be phased in over the next year -a task that falls to Stowman to oversee.

Baillie, who has worked on the Executive Committee with Stowman on these and other issues, says he has no doubt Stowman will handle them well. “I’ve been impressed about how different presidents utilize their special skills and talents to make their contributions,” he says when asked what advice he would offer Stowman. “I would recommend to David that he be the kind of president he wants to be. But he doesn’t need that advice - he’s going to do that anyway.”

That’s a sentiment echoed by everyone who has worked with Stowman. As his son Jeff says with the succinctness learned over a lifetime, “It’s real tough to disagree with him, especially when he’s in charge, because he’s going to get it done. It’s just a question whether it’s going to be easy or whether it’s going to be hard.”

Stowman, for his part, sees the situation from two perspectives. First, he says he has been learning from others in the Bar Association and expects that trend to continue. As an example, he cites early conversations - fights, he calls them - he had with Phyllis Karasov as they worked together on questions related to the legislative funding.

“We were working together to develop a model,” he recalls, “and I didn’t have the insight I have now. She and I fought like cats and dogs, but they were good fights. My thinking was fuzzy because I just hadn’t thought it through enough.”

AN ACTION ORIENTATION

While Stowman says he expects to continue learning from others and from the committee process, he believes he also has something to add from his business and community-building experiences: an action orientation. As an example, he notes his response when given the task of increasing membership in the Jaycees years ago. Instead of meeting about the problem or holding a membership drive, he went to bars and restaurants in neighboring small towns and asked for the names of people within a certain age range who lived nearby. Then he went directly to their doors with the new member forms and asked them personally to join the organization. Those early recruits, he says, became stalwart members who had a stake in building the organization.

This direct approach is the same one he used to build his practice, one referral at a time, and which his friends refer to as “focus” or “intensity.” Maurice Strom, a friend since Stowman moved to Detroit Lakes, says “I think David surprised a lot of people with his success but I know how tenacious and focused he is. There’s just no stopping him. He’s a very successful attorney because he works at it.”

Mark Fritz, a running partner, has seen that focus during races with Stowman. Last year the pair was running a marathon when Fritz realized Stowman could qualify for the Boston Marathon if he picked up the pace for the last six miles.

“He was looking like death warmed over and like he would like to crawl in a hole and die,” Fritz laughs. “So I told him, ‘If we run some nine-minute miles we’re home free.’ I looked over at him and he hadn’t talked in a couple of miles and he just grunted and dropped his chin and charged up the hill. About a mile from the finish he just chugged it in with time to spare. He’s super tough that way. He just finds it in himself to get the job done.”

Stowman, 60, doesn’t call himself tough. Instead he credits his advancing age as the factor that got him into the prestigious race. “I didn’t get any faster,” he says, “but I moved into a new age category. This may be the only year I ever qualify.”

With that in mind, Stowman was determined to make the most of the experience. Wearing a t-shirt he had hand-lettered “Go Dave”, he made sure he was running close to the sidelines in the crucial last miles of the race. Why? Because the Boston Red Sox had just won against the Yankees and “a hundred thousand rabid, fanatical Red Sox fans are lining the last two miles of the course and they’re reading my shirt and shouting Go Dave. Go Dave. And you can hear the crowd all down the line yelling Go Dave! Go Dave! It worked. That was the energy I needed.”

Resourceful, tough, focused - it’s going to be a good year for the MSBA with Stowman at the helm. Go Dave.


THERE’S A STORY BEHIND THAT...

Talk to David Stowman for any length of time - 15 minutes, say - and you’ll soon hear a story. With a few well-chosen words on his part, you’ll be transported to his practice in Detroit Lakes, or to Heartbreak Hill at the Boston Marathon, or back in time to Rothsay, his northern Minnesota hometown of just a few hundred people.

The question is did he become a storyteller after he learned to litigate? Or did the propensity for spinning a tale uniquely qualify him for the courtroom?

While you ponder that, here are three of Stowman’s favorite stories, as told by the people who were there.

Eating Ted Koppel’s Groceries-
Ted Fiskevold, a DFL activist and journalist in Detroit Lakes, has known Stowman for more than a decade. They have worked together to organize fundraisers, leaflet convention crowds, and doorknock for Democratic candidates. In 1996 they traveled together to the national Democratic convention in Chicago.

Ordinarily, over the course of the four-day convention, Stowman would have had access to a number of sanctioned activities in his role as an alternate delegate. But, as Fiskevold tells it, sanctioned access just wasn’t going to cut it. Stowman, always curious, wanted to see everything.

They started by using Fiskevold’s press pass to get Stowman into news events normally reserved for the media. But it wasn’t long, Fiskevold says, before they decided to ditch convention and simply show up at the parties they wanted to attend. The highlight for Stowman was finding themselves in a media box - Ted Koppel’s, he thinks - eating the complimentary snacks and stealing glances at Hilary Clinton and Al Gore in the next box.

Did they get any politicking done? “Oh yes,” Fiskevold says with certainty. We went to the meetings we were supposed to attend. You can’t keep David Stowman from showing up where he’s supposed to.”

Splintering Your Feet on Lake Water-
Have you ever splintered the soles of your feet on lake water? Mark Fritz has, and he can thank David Stowman for the experience. A friend of Stowman’s since he played high school sports with Stowman’s boys, Fritz has been a running partner and waterskiing buddy of the senior Stowman for more than a decade. It was waterskiing that earned Fritz his bandaged feet - barefoot waterskiing, to be exact ... in December ... on a thin skin of ice.

As Fritz recalls, he tried to get out of it, but he couldn’t escape Stowman’s persistent calls. “He was leaving these messages: ‘The lake is still open! We’ll never be able to waterski in December again,’” Fritz says. “And I’m thinking, ‘Who the heck wants to waterski in December anyway, let alone barefoot waterski? I always joke that I was hiding under my bed for two weeks and he tracked me down. I did not want to go.

Finally, Fritz says, he had to do it, just to get some peace. They went in the evening, on December 6, a night Fritz remembers as “brutally cold.” He decided the only intelligent thing to do was to dress warmly, with hat and mittens. Stowman, on the other hand, slipped into a wet suit. The Detroit Lakes newspaper captured the two of them like that, an image that still makes Fritz laugh.

So what about those splintered feet? “There was really only one bay of the lake open,” Fritz says, “and it froze over later that night. When we were skiing on it, a layer of ice was already starting. You’re going pretty fast and you’re barefoot - it just cuts you up.”

And that’s how Mark Fritz splintered his feet on lake water.

Rattling The Embassy Gates-
Maurice Strom has traveled with David Stowman dozens of times over the years. As friends and neighbors, the two have taken off on short notice to hit a Red Sox game in Boston or tour a city in Europe. Like any traveling buddies, they have seen each other cheerful, crabby, and everything in between. After all, traveling lets you really know someone else. And what Strom really knows about Stowman is that he sees things a little differently than most people.

“When we travel, we have words, but we can usually find some middle ground,” Strom says. “I have to rein him in and he has to prod me along.”

On this particular trip, Stowman wasn’t going to be reined in - he had to find out for himself that sometimes persistence doesn’t get you anywhere. The two had started their travels in London and soon found themselves in Bonn, Germany. They wanted to see France but, because of international tensions at the time, travelers needed a visa to enter the country. The problem? They didn’t have visas.

Strom was ready to change the itinerary but Stowman wanted to keep trying. The next thing Strom recalls is the two of them standing outside the French embassy in Bonn, facing a securely closed wrought-iron gate and an intercom that didn’t seem to care about their desire to see France.

So Stowman decided to get some attention. He grabbed hold of the gate and started rattling it until he got a response. The response he remembers getting included armed guards. Strom, for his part, recalls a very annoyed Embassy staffer who refused to speak English to the pair. “The French speak French,” Strom recalls him sniffing with disdain. “Only Americans speak English.”

So, did they get to see France? Not on that trip - a result that didn’t surprise Strom. “To me it was obvious early on that we weren’t going to get into France, no matter how you rattle the gates,” he says. “That was obvious to some of the other people standing around too. But that’s how David is when he travels. He’s on the edge. That’s what makes him fun to be with.”


 MAN OF MANY FACES - A QUIZ

The amazing thing about MSBA presidents is the range of skills and experiences they bring to the position. David Stowman is no exception. Underneath his gray suit beats the heart of a ... barefoot water skier?

Okay, we gave that one to you. The following list contains 30 different personae adopted by Mr. Stowman over the years, as well as three total fabrications. Can you tell which three things the incoming  president has not done or been in his lifetime?

1. Decorated Vietnam War veteran
2. Alpine skier
3. Paper Carrier
4. Barefoot water skier
5. Leading man in community theater production
6. Water Carnival Admiral
7. Buccaneer pirate
8. Grandparent to Colombian twins
9. Gate-rattler at the French embassy in Bonn
10. Alternate delegate to the 1996 national Democratic convention
11. City council alderman
12. Mystery novelist
13. Sugar beet factory worker
14. Boston marathoner
15. Community choir member
16. Pontoon Owners of America president
17. One of the Jaycees’ Ten Outstanding Young Minnesotans
18. One of Minnesota Law and Politics’ 25 Super Lawyers
19. Church council president
20. VFW post commander
21. Recipient of Presidential Certificate for outstanding community service by Vietnam veterans
22. CLE lecturer
23. Mock trial judge
24. Cofounder, Northwest Minnesota Legal Services
25. Airplane flyer
26. Fraternity member
27. Jaycees membership recruiter
28. Late night practical joke phone caller
29. DFL county chair
30. Consumer of Ted Koppel’s groceries
31. Cousin of Clint Eastwood
32. Fundraising host for Paul Wellstone campaigns
33. Leading American Attorney, as named by the American Research Corporation

Want to know how you did? Here are the answers. David Stowman is not a cousin of Clint Eastwood (you knew that, right?); he was never president of the Pontoon Owners of America (we just made that organization up); and he has not written a mystery novel - yet.

So, if those were the fabrications, that means that Stowman has flown an airplane, has skied the Alps, has eaten Ted Koppel’s groceries, has been a buccaneer pirate, has rattled the French embassy gate in Bonn, Germany, and has played the leading man in a community theater production. Want to know the story behind those stories? You’ll have to come to an MSBA event and ask him for yourself.